work / migraines
Yvonne wrote: My boss is telling me to just get my mind off the headache and go away, but it's not quite that easy. The best cure seems for me to go home and get to sleep. I'm interested in hearing how others handle migraines at work and if their boss gets angry when you have to leave. Sometimes I can deal with it at work, but other times I just have to leave. Anyone else? xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Hi Yvonne, I am mostly a lurker, too. ( Several of us seem to be coming out of lurkdom lately). But this comment of yours hit a nerve. I have had migraines for 25 years and almost always I wake up with them in full bloom. For years I took Cafergot, (and Tigan for nausea) and hated it. But it usually made the migraine ease and between the two of them I was able to make it to work, although I of course, felt like someone had beaten me. I ached all over and I swear I could FEEL blood vessels breaking. And of course, over the years it became less and less effective and rebounds began to happen. Then Imitrex became available and I hounded the doctor until I got it. It was a real relief for me. But since I woke up with them I had to take it and lay down for a half hour or so to let it do it's thing. I explained this to my boss ( whose wife was a nurse so he thought he was a medical expert ). And, we had flex-time so I thought everything was going to be fine. However, at EVERY yearly evaluation he brought up how he had NO PROBLEM with my being late on the days that I had a migraine. But his attitude was that I should be grateful that he was so understanding. Mind you, they never paid me for a minute of time off due to a migraine. I either made up the time or if I had to miss a half day or a full day I used vacation time. The only sick time I ever turned it was for the strep or influenza I had. I even had awards for perfect attendence. He assured me that I did not need to worry about him holding this against me, but I did not want this on my written record. At the end of March our department was ordered ( as part of a company-wide downsizing of 2500 ) to cut two people. I was one of them. After 21 years at the same place I was out. In the last year the pressure at work was soooo great that no matter what I took as a preventative nothing really worked and I was having two to three migraines a week. Since I left that hellhole I have had only two migraines in TEN WEEKS! and that during a time when I had NO JOB....a litlle bit of stress in itself, I believe. I consider this the best thing that has happened to me in years. No matter what a boss will tell you, they do NOT understand!! Thanks for letting me vent, guys! Ellen Akron, OHIO
Hi Ellen, and welcome to the group. Glad you decided to de-lurk :) You said it all, and very well, so there's not much to add. One recommendation for a website to check out though, for those who wake up with their migraines: www.drjimboyd.com He's found an interesting link between the cranial/facial muscles, and waking migraines. He also posts, fairly regularly, on alt.support.headaches.migraine and seems to be a really nice guy too. Some members there have had work done by him and reported improvement. He used to (maybe still does) be the director of Michigan Head Pain Institue, where our Deb was supposed to go this month. Deb, or Samantha, if you're out there, drop me a line, or go check out that website. Dr. Jim honestly seems to be one of those doctors that care and listen, which is always a nice change of pace :) Karen in Florida There are many intelligent species in the world - They are all owned by cats.
Hi Ellen, These are the types of migraines I usually get - waking up with them. I took Cafergot years ago, but it didn't do anything for me. I do agree with you that no matter what the boss says, they don't understand. Although, the last two bosses I had were much better about my migraines. One always offered to drive me home, even though I lived a distance. I never let her do that though. I just waited until I could see again, then I left. I do feel the stress is related to my job as I'm very lucky in my homelife. I have a wonderful husband and am pretty happy in every area except my job. I've very seriously considered leaving, but instead I'm working on something that will have me doing something I'll like and doing it at home. Take care. Yvonne