The sex thing.
Regarding the sex thing. When my wife and want to be intimate, and I have a migraine, it is understood that compassion, love and hugging are ways to express our feelings for one another. At first it was not easy to come to this level of understanding. I was very clumsy and awkward. The migraine stages first enhanced everything. I would be aggressive, and the next stage I would not know what I was doing, or where anything was. But as time went on, the understanding and compassion emerged, and intimacy evolved into a sharing of a special kind. She is not a migrainer, but has been acquainted with pain, and somehow is able to understand. We pick our times we have our signals, all in the world of lovers who love. Robert