sex...
"My 84 year old Grandmother told me on my wedding day that if you always have a headache and say "no"....they will find they're satisfaction somewhere else. She was a migrainuer so I think she probably said no too many times and regretted it. I'd like to hear the male perspective on this one." Whether it was my increasingly chronic migraines, the drugs connected with them, the "middle-aged depression" or the drugs that handled that, I either lost interest or ability. She then went into her own "mid-life crisis" and we are now ex. Curiously enough, finally found a doctor who is succeeding in treating the headaches, and I'm feeling better "in lots of ways"... 'Course, she didn't stick around, but she also claims there was more to it than sex. (And there may well be more to it as to why I was becoming "dysfunctional"...)