Fw: Fw: sex!!!!!!!????
(also from Jan:) I agree, however sometimes my husband just services me, out of love. And it's always a nice surprise! I think my first post regarding the issue made my husband look like the bad guy...he's not, men are very different sexually than women. He is always kind when asking if I'm up to it and I would rather have sex with him since I'm a chronic migrainuer than have him looking elsewhere. My 84 year old Grandmother told me on my wedding day that if you always have a headache and say "no"....they will find they're satisfaction somewhere else. She was a migrainuer so I think she probably said no too many times and regretted it. I'd like to hear the male perspective on this one. Hi Jan, Christy here. I'm really glad you have your husband in your life, it sounds like he is very supportive for you and gives you what you need at the time, out of love. I remember dating some guys...in my past, who would just LEAVE whenever I got a migraine...they would just disappear! That was such a lonely feeling, having to go through the pain alone. It's such a comfort, to have someone we love, who loves us enough to stay with us, to go through the bad times, as well as the good! That's real love. Take care, Christy
In a message dated 7/23/99 1:12:26 AM Central Daylight Time, CJBEnterprises@... writes: Hi Christy, sorry you have had such bad experiences with boyfriends, what jerks! Like someone said a day or two ago....True love is having someone holding your puke bucket for you and emptying it! Jan :*)
Thank you so much, Hippolyta, I feel very blessed with David, never thought I would be happy again. In regards to what you wrote about people being insensitive in their comments and attitudes toward migraine sufferers, I agree with what you wrote. I don't want people's pity or extra attention...in fact, the older I get, the less I like to tell people out there about my migraines. But when it does come up in a conversation, I think that what I want or need is: acknowledgement. I guess I just want others to believe me. And when they don't, out of their own ignorance or misunderstanding or stupidity or insensitveness (or cruelty?)......I find myself getting upset, when I should just let it roll off my back and not worry about it. I don't know if anyone else feels this way. Simply receiving a person's acknowledgement about the migraines...is enough for me. Not too long ago, someone knocked on my door and I opened it. It was a young man selling newspapers...he went into his speech about subscribing...and I told him "no thanks". He kept on talking and I again said "no thanks" and then told him that I was unemployed and disabled (true, but I was trying to make him leave). He looked at me and remarked, "you look just fine to me". At that point I got angry and shut the door in his face. This was NOT my normal behavior..usually I'm the timid type who will listen to a sales pitch when I don't want to..but in this case, what he said about "looking just fine" made me angry. Maybe I have a chip on my shoulder or I'm just being defensive? LOL...I don't know! Christy